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Emotional Wisdom: Navigating Life with Feeling and Pragmatic Action
This post is a companion piece to " Chronic Stress: How Mental Patterns Shape Our Struggles. " The other post rightly emphasized the primacy of rational action in the face of crisis. When a child is drowning, we do not examine our emotions but jump into the lake to save them. Our survival, our livelihoods, our very commitments sometimes demand immediate, decisive action, regardless of the emotional maelstrom within. However, the emphasis on responding effectively is not a dis
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
12 min read


Chronic Stress: How Mental Patterns Shape Our Struggles.
Life is a continuous negotiation, often presenting demands that stretch our capacities to their absolute limits. When these pressures mount, and the prospect of falling short feels like an existential threat. Our brains, usually marvels of processing, can descend into a cognitive fog: concentration falters, memory malfunctions, and even minor decisions feel insurmountable. Our bodies bear the brunt: chronic fatigue, muscles locked in tension, digestive turmoil, and a comprom
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
8 min read


The Night Shift: Why Your Brain Might Be Waking You Up In a Panic
You're deep in the peaceful oblivion of sleep. Next, you're bolt upright, heart hammering, lungs seizing, gripped by an inexplicable terror. There's no fire, no intruder, no actual threat – just the raw, visceral sensation of pure panic. It's a nocturnal panic attack . For those who experience them, these episodes are uniquely unsettling. They hijack your body's alarm system when you're supposed to be most secure, leaving you shaken, exhausted, and sometimes, dreading the nex
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
7 min read


WHY IS PANIC SO DIFFICULT TO DEAL WITH?
To say that panic attacks feel awful is an understatement. Panic attacks are awful AND confusing. A panic attack is full blown alarm...
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
5 min read


A FEW WORDS ON WORRY...
Chances are that you have tried to stop worrying but the whole endeavor turned out to be far more difficult and frustrating than...
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
9 min read


AS CONCEPTS GO, POSITIVE THINKING IS RATHER UNHELPFUL
It is true: I don’t like the push towards positive thinking. I think that CBT is about realistic evaluation of what is happening in our...
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
3 min read


WHAT IS EXPOSURE? IN SIMPLE TERMS. AND WITH EXAMPLES…
Exposure is a CBT technique used to treat anxiety disorders that requires us to face triggers that cause anxiety, but are not dangerous. ...
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
7 min read


COVID19: UNCERTAINTY – HOW CAN I FUNCTION IF I DO NOT KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN?
Contagious illnesses such as Covid19, economy, politics are all complex systems. It is possible to build some predictive models but...
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
6 min read


COVID-19: FRUSTRATION - THIS SHOULD NOT HAVE HAPPENED!
Nobody expected that 2020 will bring a lock-down. This lock-down aimed to protect us from a highly contagious virus. Together, the...
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
3 min read


OF TRIGGERS, DANGERS AND THINGS OF IMPORTANCE
Google dictionary defines trigger as “an event or circumstance that is the cause of a particular action, process, or situation”. Danger...
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
3 min read


THINKING SHORTCUTS ARE UNDERSTANDABLE. THEY JUST DON'T ALWAYS SERVE US RIGHT.
A lot of our mind work occurs at a non-conscious level. We can be propelled into action or aware of the emotions that we may feel but not...
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
8 min read


COMPASSION IS NOT THE SAME AS HELP.
Have you ever stayed up all night worrying about the wellbeing of someone you care about? You might have just learnt about this person’s...
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
3 min read


FROM PAVLOV'S DOGS TO BAD VIBES
Have you ever felt “bad energy”? You might believe that some people create bad vibes and feel particularly uncomfortable with them. ...
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
4 min read


IS IT OVER YET? MANAGING IMPATIENCE DURING COVID19
You might have found yourself wondering when it will be all over and when the world would return to normal. It is a very understandable...
Joanna Szczeskiewicz
3 min read
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